2 + 1 = 3

About one year ago, I discovered that my boyfriend would like to sleep with me and another girl at the same time. As I have always fantasised about sleeping with a girl, I didn’t freak, but I thought it could be fun. Some months ago, Betty and I were talking about sleeping with two people at the same time or having a threesome. One thing lead to another, and we sort of agreed to try. My boyfriend has several times tried to realise it, but it has never really been a good timing so when we told him, he didn’t believe us.

 

Only to consider having sex with another person who is not a part of our couple, is it really a good idea? Can I watch my boyfriend sleep with another girl and not have a nervous jealousy breakdown? Is it possible to separate feelings and sex and just f***?

I am not really the jealous type, but this is nevertheless something so extreme that it might be difficult. What I think is the most important is that I trust both Betty and my boyfriend. We have decided several rules and stop signs which has to be followed. When it comes to the jealousy part, I do not see a threesome as making love. It is rather realising a fantasy which is pure sexual and has nothing to do with feelings. I know this can be easy for me to say before we actually have done it, but we have already done stuff the three of us, even though we haven’t gone that far. The things we did, just kissing and touching, went pretty well. No nervous breakdown or hard feelings. No awkward silence around the breakfast table the morning after. It was just fine. I just have to underline that we aren’t doing this because we want to save or freshen up our relationship. There is nothing to save or fresh up and everything is going great. It think it is a complete must to be in a healthy and strong relationship to be able to go through something like this. Let’s hope we haven’t misjudged our strength.

 

Love Mandy

 

Menage-a-trois, part 1!!

Well, don’t we all have some sort of secret lust to have sex with two other people at the same time? All my buddies (boys) allways reveal their desire to sleep with two girls at the same time, and some friends of mine, a couple, would love for me to join them ‘in the act’, in fact they are asking when could be a good time for it.. And when I think about it, I feel that maybe it isn’t such a bad idea. We all have our lusts, and to be honest one of mine is to have sex with two people at the same time, if it’s a girl and a boy or two boys doesn’t really matter to me, but I think it’s the excitement of it all.

I’ve been talking to some people about this subject, and many of them agrees that it would be exciting, allthough most of them thinks that in the end they wouldn’t go through with it.. What a shame, it must be so much fun to actually have lived to see some of your fantasies come through, to actually have the guts to go through with them..

More to come, stay tuned 😉

XOXO Betty!