It’s a date then, or at least a late dinner
October 13, 2008Coworker called me yesterday to invite me over to is place Thursday. I believe his exact words was “Mandy, I want to cook for you” which kind of made me smile. As you surely know, there is a common belief that when a woman wants to cook for you, she does also want to sleep with you. However, this probably does not apply to the male part of the population. Moreover, this will be the second time he has made me a meal and nothing has happened. I might just take a shot and kiss him as I start to have some serious fantasies about him. I also have to break the pattern of being a coward when it comes to these kind of situations. Yeah… I think I may try that out…
Love Mandy
Betty
Mandy
Hi Mandy,
Definitely go for it! Unless neither of you work on Fridays, I see even the time as conducive to trying something new…you always have the option of backing away “because Friday mornings always come too early.” A man who wants to cook for you is a man who wants to see you happy, pleased, satisfied, and is somebody you can feel comfortable eating around. This seems like too good a combination to pass up. Good luck!
Seth
Good for you mylove.
I must admit, love life here on the other side of the earth isn’t going splendid. I just found that german guy in fact, just got a girlfriend. It’s been three weeks since we last hooked up, and allthough I’m not ready to admit it to anyone here, maybe least of all myself, I find myself DEADLY jealous of this girl!
My other problem is that another guy, which I think of as a good friend, is kinda in love with me, I knew this, and knew what I felt towards him, yet I ended up making out with him on friday. I think he expects some more action, and I have no idea how to tell him that I was drunk and that I, in fact, just see him as a friend! My love life, my sexual life, and anything in between has now gone bananas. I find myself hooking up just because I need someone to love, someone to believe in, someone to cuddle with and someone who really truely adores me. I find it so very stressful and scary that I’m capable of doing anything of that sort, but I have no idea how not too..
On top of all, I really miss my ex. I wan’t him to come visit, I want to see him, touch him, cuddle with him, sleep with him and make love with him..
XO, and a little selfpity from Betty in sunny California!
Thanks Seth
Can’t be easy for you Betty;)
Anyways. I hope you update us on you love life if something happends both of you.
Hugs to both of you if it helps(although it’s hard to count that as cuddle:P)
hi..cooking some food?visit me…